DISCOVER THE
3 CODES
TO CLEAR CODEPENDENCY
DISCOVER
THE 3 CODES TO
clear codependency
- The Want to Be Wanted
- The Need to Be Needed
- The Need to Prove Oneself
YOUR RELATIONSHIP w/ YOURSELF IS WHERE IT ALL BEGINS
Discover the 3 codes to clear codependency
- The Want to Be Wanted
- The Need to Be Needed
- The Need to Prove Oneself
As Seen On
Are You Ready To...
- Dissolve the TRAUMA-BONDS that you have to other people AND your INNER PUNISHER.
- TRUST YOURSELF as THE SOURCE of your experience.
- TRUST YOURSELF as THE CREATOR of your experience.
- BE the vessel for your innate TALENTS, GIFTS & PASSIONS.
If you identify as Codependent OR suspect that you may have some codependent habits or behaviors that are limiting your ability to reach your fullest potential both personally and/or professionally:
- Your MOOD will no longer depend on someone else's.
- Your HAPPINESS will no longer depend on someone else's.
- Your experience of SAFETY will no longer depend on the style of someone else's attention.
- You will no longer be looking to someone else to find YOUR EXPERIENCE.
- You will no longer be looking to someone else to find YOUR IDENTITY.
- You will know, psychologically & somatically, the difference between a REAL THREAT & a PERCEIVED THREAT.
- You will no longer believe that you are lost, inferior, alien to the planet, don't belong, trapped or dominated by others, limited in choice or potential, have no voice or whatever else your INNER PUNISHER tries to make you believe.
- You will generate intimacy with YOUR TRUTH & THE TRUTH OF OTHERS.
- YOU WILL BE YOU in any moment, context or relationship.
“Codependence is one of the greatest distortions of the human psyche. It is a dissociation of self & an illusion as to what true connection & desire really is. “ – C. Fidelman
Conscious Codependence™ Recovery
The process of recognizing our automatic habits of blaming our feelings on others AND focusing more on another person’s reality than our own.
The Northstar of this process is the return to your TRUE NATURE – to having full access to yourself as a unique portal to the infinite w/ the blend of dependence, independence & intimacy that works best for you.
It blends a mix of somatic experiencing, cognitive behavioral therapy and intersubjective meditation.
And it reestablishes self-worth for over achievers by cultivating a deep sense of safety and belonging within their psyche, spirit and nervous system.
Welcome to this portal of trauma and identity healing that I’ve created called Conscious Codependence™ Recovery.
The 3 Codes to Clear Codependency provide the catalyst for change in any moment that you are looking to another person(s) for permission to be heard, to secure your sense of self, safety, identity and (most importantly) your inner peace.
The 3 Codes are the foundational distinctions of my work and allow for expedited & conscious recovery.
They are the keys to your sovereignty.
We are not the misfits or the outcasts or the defective ones that can’t figure out relationships like most other people – but our codependence tells us that we are.
Our Codependence doesn’t make us different. The more we address it, the more obvious it becomes that we are the majority and I’m out to normalize it.
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Client Love
"Cheryl is going to love all of who you are & help be a way to show you how you can authentically & genuinely love yourself"
– Nikol
"I was the stone & Cheryl was the water..."
– Kellita
"I have just completed the 10-month Trauma to Truth master class with Cheryl..."
– Jeanette
"I have freed my mind..."
– Maryline
"I am glad to say I am no longer enslaved to my codependency..."
– Ruth Falk
"To be honest I've never never thought I would get to this point..."
– Chris Carr
"I've been working with Cheryl for seven years now..."
– Tara
"I was in a personal crisis..."
– Sakino
"I was burnt out and feeling so in need of a change career-wise..."
– RFG
"I'm actually living more now..."
– Ann Lynch
"I'm in a different place now..."
– Karen
When I was 4 years old, Codependence came into my life.
At first, I didn’t recognize it.
But I remember as it slowly came in and I slowly left. And over the next 25 years, it grew inside me until it was me. It steered my beliefs, choices, decisions, relationships, identity and self-image.
Codependence became me and I became Codependence – we were one.
I experienced glimpses of me through the years as I fought for those moments of air beyond the subtly suffocating and dominating chokehold of Codependence.
I dated 9 alcoholics in a row and all of my female friends were alcoholics. I got fired from 6 jobs in a row, I had major social anxiety, I felt ugly & inferior, I was saturated with shame, I wanted everyone to like me and I didn’t feel safe anywhere.
What it came down to was that I was unconsciously recreating my relationship with my mother, my brother and my father everywhere. I was almost always in my TRAUMATIC IDENTITY – the identity my nervous system developed in order to survive my childhood holding environment.
At this point, it’s been 32 years of therapy, a degree in Behavioral Science, 10 years of 12 step programs, 30 plant medicine journeys, several year-long training programs and over $100k in business & leadership coaching to diffuse my Codependence & return to MY TRUE NATURE – the way in which I was innately designed to express, love, connect & create.
It is now my greatest passion to support others in living from the point of view of their TRUE NATURE.
ABOUT
Cheryl is a leader & thought provoker in the Human Potential Movement and believes that Codependence is one of the most obvious ways that we demonstrate our unhealed trauma in our relationships.
She is dedicated to normalizing Codependence Recovery and finding its place in the zeitgeist as one of the main keys to human evolution.
As a coach, educator, facilitator & speaker for the past 15 years, she has supported those that identify as Codependent in establishing a healthy relationship with themselves so that they can build healthy, meaningful relationships with others.
She has meticulously developed group programs, private programs for individuals & couples and The LISTENing Workshop for Businesses & Organizations. Her pioneering Conscious Codependence™ work is changing the landscape of how relationship issues are understood and overcome.
